I am in Balclutha, where my mother lives in care.(She is 96 plus).
It is a 6 hour drive from Christchruch, so difficult to visit often.
Mum still has her own home there, which is just used when family come to visit, so I have taken her there with me to give her a change. She would love to be back in her own home, but she knows it is not possible, so we just enjoyed the time together.