both focussed

Having met him just two days before he started the excessive stropping maternal-resource-conflict phase, my cousin Jennie described him as being good-natured (which was certainly true for most of the three preceding years), allowing him to remain in close proximity to her own half-year-old for a prolonged period when my parents took him through to visit his great-uncle, grand-auntie, cousin-once-removed and cousin-twice-removed-once-on-each-side. She kindly subsequently gifted the pair of them a matching set of digger-related sleepwear, possibly connected with the big one raving about diggers and things, possibly encouraged by being given one by my uncle when they were through.